Feast day: 27 August

Saint Monica

Sancta Monica

The persevering mother whose seventeen years of prayer obtained the conversion of her son Augustine.

Born
c. 331, Thagaste, Roman North Africa
Died
387, Ostia, near Rome
Canonization
Venerated by ancient tradition; her cult was formally promoted when her relics were translated to Rome in 1430.
Country
Roman North Africa (Algeria)
MothersWives and married womenVictims of adultery and abuseParents of wayward children

Biography

Marriage and family

Born to a Christian family in Thagaste, Monica was married to Patricius, a pagan official of difficult temper. She bore three children: Augustine, Navigius and Perpetua. By patience rather than argument she brought her husband to baptism shortly before his death.

Years of prayer

Augustine's Manicheism and irregular life caused her deep grief. She followed him to Rome and Milan, prayed daily and wept for him. A bishop she consulted told her, according to the Confessions, that 'it is not possible that the son of these tears should perish'.

Ostia and death

After Augustine's baptism in 387 they set out for Africa. At Ostia mother and son shared the famous conversation on eternal life recorded in Confessions IX. Monica fell ill and died there, telling her sons to bury her wherever they were and only to remember her at the altar of the Lord.

Timeline

  1. ~c. 331 Born at Thagaste
  2. c. 354 Birth of her son Augustine
  3. c. 371 Death of her husband Patricius, baptized shortly before
  4. 385 Follows Augustine to Italy
  5. 387 Sees Augustine baptized; dies at Ostia

Dates marked ~ are traditional or debated among historians.

Symbols

TearsHer long weeping in prayer for her son.

Black leather belt (cincture)Worn by the Augustinian family in her honour.

Virtues & spiritual lessons

Perseverance in prayer, patience in a hard marriage, meekness and hope. She teaches that intercession for family members is never wasted.

Importance in the Church

Without Monica there would be no Augustine as the Church knows him. She is the model of Christian motherhood and of quiet, persistent evangelization within the family.

Quotes

Nothing is far from God.

Her words at Ostia, quoted in Augustine's Confessions IX, 11

Prayers

Prayer to Saint Monica for a wayward child

Exemplary mother of the great Augustine, you perseveringly pursued your wayward son not with wild threats but with prayerful cries to heaven. Intercede for all mothers in our day, that they may learn to draw their children to God. Teach them how to remain close to their children, even the prodigal sons and daughters who have sadly gone astray. Amen.

Traditional devotional prayer used in Augustinian parishes.

Places

Ostia Antica, ItalyWhere she died in 387; her original burial place.

Basilica of Sant'Agostino, RomeHer relics were translated here in 1430.

Entries are drawn from the Roman Martyrology, the General Roman Calendar, canonization records of the Holy See, and the saints' own writings. Where a date, quotation or attribution is uncertain, it is marked as such. (63 saints)